It might be a cliche, but there’s no disputing that the bedroom is a vital part of any relationship. You shouldn’t have to settle for small talk and Netflix all the time when you can spice things up with your partner! 

One of the most basic and efficient ways to add spice to your romantic relationship is to change things from time to time. This is something that takes some effort from you. Yet, once you get into it, it’s easy to see how it could be something that makes a big difference in your love life — and perhaps even take things to the next level.

1. Alternate or modify your lovemaking positions.

Using the same positions all the time can quickly get boring and monotonous. By changing positions, you can alter penetration depth and speed and stimulate various erogenous zones. Different positions can be game-changers, making even the most basic acts seem new and more pleasurable.

2. Bring in the adult toys. 

Men commonly believe that using adult toys or other accessories while making love suggests that they aren’t masculine enough. For a lot of men, wearing a penis sheath can feel emasculating and intimidating. But it doesn’t have to be so.  Many people love playing with adult toys with their partner. Studies have shown that these couples have more satisfying relationships in and out of the bedroom. 

Adult toys are not meant to take on your partner’s role in the bedroom but to complement and augment their efforts. If you’re not going solo, you and your lover can have the time of your lives every single time. 

3. Set things in motion with a good atmosphere.

To create a magical bedroom experience, you must establish a comfortable environment. When each person is relaxed, and at ease, it becomes much easier to have a wonderful time. This goes for any gender, but it’s particularly essential for women. 

According to research, partners who spend more effort creating a romantic atmosphere or mood report having more  satisfying interactions in bed. 

What do we mean by a good atmosphere? It’s simple. We’re talking about lighting, music, sheets, and anything that puts you at ease and makes you relaxed enough to let yourself go and enjoy the moment.  

4. Be adventurous.

Most of us have fantasized about doing something daring, adventurous, or spontaneous with our partners. And what better way to spice things up than with a bit of adventure? For instance, some couples use remote-controlled adult toys (both indoors and outdoors) to make things more interesting. 

As long as it’s safe and not without consent, it doesn’t matter what you do. Just find new, satisfying ways to improve your love life.

Final Words

Therapeutic, creative, and a little naughty – maybe that’s what you need to give things a new vibe. If you’re unhappy in bed, it’s likely to reflect in other areas. As long as you establish firm boundaries, you can experiment with different things, and you’re sure to discover more mind-blowing secrets about your body!