When you see a couple, all loved up years into their relationship amid failing relationships; it’s not rocket science. You’re looking at two people who have deliberately tried to be intentional about each other. Achieving this isn’t a walk in the park, and it takes a lot of deliberate effort from each individual in the relationship.
When Boy meets Girl, Boy, and Girl, feel a spark, and the sparks ripple effect brings Boy and Girl together. However, that initial spark tends to fizzle after time with all the routines that now start to come into play. Both partners begin to get comfortable, and before you know it, you’re wondering what you saw in Boy or Girl in the first place.
Well, guess you’d like to avoid that, and that’s why you’re here. This blog post will cover some of the little things you can do to ensure that you keep coming back to scented candles like you did when you first met.
Go On Adventures Together
Everyone has a bucket list of things they want to try at least once in their lifetime, and each person’s bucket list will vary based on how adventurous they are. Couples can create bucket lists together and tick off all the activities on each person’s list together. Trying out new things together is one easy recipe to keep things sizzling for years in your relationship.
Look For Creative Ways To Communicate
Every relationship, whether platonic or romantic, is built because of the conscious effort to communicate between all the parties involved. Calling or texting is fantastic; however, think of exciting ways to communicate beyond texting and calls. Go offline and use a good ‘ole pen and paper, write a note, and put it into your partner’s work clothes. Tell her what you want her to wear when you walk through the door.
Cultivate A Habit Of Giving Thoughtful Gifts
Ever talked to someone and asked them what the best gift they got from their partner was, and their answer blew your mind because of how small the gift was? It’s probably because of the thoughtfulness behind the gift. Think of moments that you shared as a couple and give gifts to show that you remembered those beautiful moments. You won’t even need scented candles for what will come after all of that.
Say I Love You In Different Ways
Hearing the magic words from a partner can do wonders for a couple. However, you know what’s even better? Finding new ways to tell your partner you love them. Use words like “I don’t know how I could have lived without you for as long as I have” from our Notebook couple. Send something to your partner’s workplace for no reason at all.
Do Something You Love Alone
The saying absence makes the heart fonder can be true in many cases. Learn to do things you love without your partner, and travel on personal trips occasionally. It creates even more room for both partners to discover fantastic things to talk about and gives you a chance to appreciate your partner’s presence even more when they are with you.
Play Games
It could be a generic game or a game you both created; the origin doesn’t matter. Playing games is an enjoyable way for couples to bond. You can modify your favourite games into more personal ones. You can pair up your best friends and play great games to up the fun another notch.
Have You Tried The Table?
Have you tried the table once again? Yes! Have you? Nobody said you have to be stuck experimenting with things in the bedroom. Chastity cage expert Amy from Chastity Cage NZ says that by exploring your intimate relationship outside of the bedroom you can shake things up and reinvigorate what might be a boring sex life.
Finally
There’s no perfect relationship, just two people determined to work to build something that lasts. There’s a reason you fell for your partner in the first place. If the fire the spark lit is burning out, feed the flames. Learn to love your partner like it’s the first time you fell every day!
